Having watched and observed life from the standpoint
of a soldier for 10 years of my life, I always felt there was no higher honor
than to serve my country and defend the values that established this country.
My family has a history of serving this country dating back to the American Revolution,
and I felt that to continue on in that tradition was the honorable thing to do.
As I went through the process which led to my decision to refuse deployment
to Iraq for the second time, I was torn between thoughts of abandoning the soldiers
that I serve with, or following my conscience, which tells me: war is the ultimate
in destruction and waste of humanity.
Thoughts that we could, and should, consider better ways to solve our differences
with other people in the world have crossed my mind on numerous occasions. And
this was the driving force that made me refuse deployment to Iraq a second time.
Some people may say I am doing so out of fear of combat; I am not going to tell
you that the thought of going back to that place isn't scary, but that
is not the reason for my decision to not return.
I want people to know that the longer I thought about just how stupid the concept
of war really is, the stronger I felt about not participating in war. Why do
we tell our children to not solve their differences with violence, then turn
around and commit the ultimate in violence against people in another country
who have nothing to do with the political attitudes of their leaders?
Having read numerous books on the subject of war and having heard all the arguments
for war, I have come to the conclusion that there are no valid arguments for
the destructive force of war. People are destroyed, nations are destroyed, and
yet we continue on with war. The young people that I went with to the combat
zone looked at it like it was a video game they played back in their childhood.
When you contemplate the beauty of the world around us and the gifts we have
been given, you have to ask yourself, "Is this what humanity is meant to
do, wage war against one another?" Why can't we teach our children not
to hate or to not be afraid of someone else just because they are different
from us? Why must it be considered honorable to train young men and women to
look through the sights of a high-powered rifle and to kill another human being
from 300 meters away?
Consider, if you will, the positive things that could be accomplished without
war in our lives: prescription medication that is affordable for seniors, college
grants that are available for high school seniors – I could name a list
of reasons not to waste our resources on war. The most important being to let
the children of the world learn war no more.
I've received e-mails from people who said that I was a coward for not going
to war, but I say to them that I have already been, so I do not have anything
to prove to anyone anymore. What is there to prove anyway – that I can
kill someone I do not even know and who has never done anything to me? What
is in that concept that anyone could consider honorable?
I first realized that war was the wrong way to handle things in this or any
other country when I went to the war zone and saw the damage that it causes.
Why must we resort to violence when things do not go our way? Where is the logic
of that? I have felt that there are better ways to handle our business than
to bomb each other into oblivion. When you are on the water in a boat and you
have a chance to see dolphins playing with each other as they go about their
business, you realize that if they can live without war, then humanity should
be able to as well.
Can't we teach our children to leave war behind in history where it belongs?
We realized that slavery and human sacrifice were obsolete institutions, and
we left them behind us. When are going to have the same enlightened attitude
I look at my stepchildren and realize that war has no place with me in giving
them what they need to survive the trials and tribulations of early adulthood.
And if you look at all the time soldiers lose in the course of fighting wars,
such as birthdays and anniversaries, their children going to the senior prom
and college graduations, and other things that can never be replaced, then you
have to come to the understanding that war steals more from people than just
the sense of humanity – it also steals some of that humanity from their
I have learned from firsthand experience that war is the destroyer of everything
that is good in the world; it turns our young into soulless killers, and we
tell them that they are heroes when they master the "art" of killing.
That is a very deranged mindset in my opinion. It destroys the environment,
life, and the resources that could be used to create more life by advancing
War should be left behind us; we should evolve to a higher mindset even if
it means going against what most people tell us in this country, such as that
we can never stop fighting with other people in the world. I have made the decision
to not participate in war any longer, and some people in this country cannot
comprehend that concept, but to me it is simple. I have chosen not to take part
in war, and it was easy to come to that decision.
I cannot tell anyone else how to live his or her life, but I have determined
how I want to live mine – by not participating in war any longer, as I
feel that it is stupid and against everything that is good about our world.